okay, so I feel very foolish,
I was comparing the dnn control declarations,skin css, xml, etc and everything, but what I did not look at was the
bottom of the DarkKnight Skin ascx files which included the following:
<dnn:DnnJsInclude runat="server" FilePath="jquery.cycle.min.js" PathNameAlias="SkinPath" />
<dnn:DnnJsInclude runat="server" FilePath="DNNMega/jquery.dnnmega.debug.js" PathNameAlias="SkinPath" />
<dnn:DnnCssInclude runat="server" FilePath="DNNMega/dnnmega.css" PathNameAlias="SkinPath" />
<dnn:DnnJsInclude runat="server" FilePath="~/Resources/Shared/Scripts/jquery/jquery.hoverIntent.min.js" />
Once I included that in all my skin files it worked. What a simple thing to overlook. Sheesh
thank you Joe for your time - you helped me narrow down my oversight, I used firebug to see which css and js were loading and my skin files were missing the above files. I eventually found my mistake.